I read somewhere lately that majority of the human population on the earth is average. Which from whatever maths  I can remember from my engineering days should be true if we apply principles of Gaussian distribution. So with majority of population on the earth being average, majority of the days in our lives are also average. These days could involve us just shuttling between work and home or going out for dinners, weddings or shopping for day-to-day things. Rare are the days when we wear a lavish gown or a saree which aims to look like it came from Sabyasachi's studio. While we take extra care of these "rare" days, we often take the majority average days where we just need to step out for "nothing fancy" for granted. I for one like to dress up everytime I step out. And by dress up I don't mean something flashy, but something which tells me that I am putting some thought into how I look today. I read somewhere, "People are going to look. Lets make it worth their while". And I say, why not?

So what is the first step to getting ideas to put together a look which shows the effort you have put in your "an average day" look as well? I would love to say, "Checking out enigmatic's blog", but truth be told, its the celebrities in movies, public appearances and magazines we look at for inspiration. Some of you might not agree with me because more often that not, what the tinsel town wears is very aspirational and impractical. But I think there are some who are inspirational in a practical sort of way.  Kangana Ranaut is one such actress who from the very beginning has always been able to team up very practical clothes into very stylish yet perfect for an average day outing outfits.

There are some I especially like.


A shopping and dinner date:
Simple printed kurta with a long skirt and bag

A shopping date with friends or Friday office wear:
White shirt with knee length flared skirt and brogues

An outing with parents or relatives or just any outing on a summer day:
Extra long airy kurtaa with palazzos and punjabi jutti

A sudden invitation to attend a formal dinner or a lazy morning for office:
Silk embroidered kurta

A cousin's sangeet or a friend's marriage:
Silk flared long skirt with crop top

A romantic date:
Black raw silk dress with some pearls

A different blouse:
Boat necked with half sleeves

A formal function:
Formals in a color other than black, blue, grey

I have always looked forward to her movies even before she became Queen or Tanu. Because with movies come promotions and with promotions come more of Kangana Ranaut's amazing choice of practical styles. And she is one of those rare actresses who repeats her accessories, clothes (in different combinations), shoes etc.

I hope she comes up with more such styles.

Source of all photos: Google images

(Each book name is linked to its page on goodreads.com for your reference) 

Author: Paula Hawkins
Genre: Mystery, Romance
This book is good. A page turner. No Gone girl but I think one Gone girl was enough ;) Not to be considered for light reading or when travelling alone! Especially in trains.

Author: Colleen Oakley
Genre: Fiction, Romance, Tragedy, Chic lit
This was my first book where I knew how would the book end and yet I read every single word in it. Every. Single. Word. Normally I skip some of the descriptive lines but this book didn't make me want to do that. There is just something about it. Very real. Extremely real. One of those books which so beautifully describes a love which is practical but at the same time makes you go weak in the knees.

CAUTION: Be prepared to cry. Do not read the last pages of the book while you are in office.

Author: Graeme Simsion
Genre: Fiction, Scientific comedy, Romance
Narrated by a socially challenged "encyclopedic" genetics professor, this book is unusually funny. One of those books which makes it easier to just accept yourself as you are! It gets a little boring in the last 30-40 pages but its worth the read.

Author: Kristin Harmel
Genre: Fiction, Romance, Tragedy
If you like books like PS: I love you, you will like this one too. Its not as endearing as the former but its a delightful and an emotional read. There are some surprises and mostly its just very human. 

More books to follow!

I love long skirts. The Indian kind. You know since when? Since I saw the "Nandini" character in "Kyuki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi" wear it. Yes! I used to watch it. Well. Sometimes.

Anyway, so I have wanted to wear long skirts for a really long time. But I never got to wearing them. You know why? Because I am tall. And majority of the girls in India aren't. In north India anyway. So I never got a skirt my length and I never had the courage to wear anything shorter. Then I grew up. And I realized I want to wear what I want to wear. A little length here and there doesn't matter if worn with confidence. It took me a long time to get there but I did. And see how happy I look!

Skirt: W
Crop top: Koovs.com
Jutti: Local market in Bathinda
Sling: Metro
Necklace: CP
Earrings: FabIndia
I have always been fond of dressing up. But I seldom had the courage to try something different. Something which would draw people's attention. Something most girls don't wear. Where some girls just have it in them since early age, some girls like me take their time. But its ok I think. I adore my journey from wearing totally risk free clothes to wearing something out of the ordinary. To struggling to find jeans or pants which reached my ankles to saying, "Chuck it! I will even have my tailor made pants barely reach my ankle!"

Its good to experiment with things one loves. I know just trying different outfits doesn't sound like a good candidate for a hobby, but it just makes me happy. And I think one should do things that makes one happy.

Skirt: W
Crop top: Koovs.com
Jutti: Local market in Bathinda
Sling: Metro
Necklace: CP
Earrings: FabIndia
To dressing up! To doing things that make us happy!


Once upon a time I used to be all about symmetries. Pasting the name sticker right in the middle of my school notebook covers, having a center partition, placing one tic tac clip on each side of the partition, one bangle on each arm whenever I had to attend a wedding, either no nail paint on both hands or nail paint on both hands. I even used to believe that best friends come in pairs. That if someone is my best friend, I have got to be theirs and vice versa. That what people know and what they told me is symmetrical as well.

Things have changed now. After having written lengths and lengths of symmetric and well formatted reports in college and making presentations with symmetric boxes and texts, I long for asymmetry. I doodle my name all over my notebooks, my hair partitions on its own free will ( which is never in the center), I hardly can keep track of where those zillion tic tac clips I buy go and sometimes I don't even have the same nail paint on all fingers of a single hand. I have also become a fan of information asymmetry. Like when they all made you believe how studying for a few years is going to turn life into a bed of roses. But that time they all knew that it was not true. But I didn't. Then. Now I do. And the realization is  not that bad. I don't want life to be a bed of roses. Not so soon anyway. These days I sometimes like it when things/ feelings are not reciprocated. It reminds me that life seldom turns out the way you had imagined it would. And the more frequent these asymmetries are, the more comfortable I become with the idea.

So. Asymmetries are good. See below. They can be in your favorite clothes too. A combination of long and short. However long and however short. 




Dress: www.theclosetlabel.com
Clutch: donebynone.com
Flats: myntra.com
Belt: Plucked from a 109 F dress

To the asymmetries in life!
I get bored really easily. And I am forever wanting for new things to happen. And then when they happen, I get bored of these new things as well and then I want things to go back to normal again. Like how you yearn to get out of your city, catch up with friends, go for a trip and then when you are doing all this, those strange hotel sheets and cold italian sandwiches remind you of your comfy bed, hot aloo prathas and elaichi, long and dal chini tea! But you know what! All new things don't mean away from home and all the nostalgia that follows. And quite unsurprisingly, one of these new things for me is trying out new combinations with my existing wardrobe! (Rolling eyes, are we?)

So, in one of my never ending series of episodes of different-ways-to-wear-your-wardrobe, I brought together a simple kurta, a belt from another dress, a pair of white leggings bought with another kurta and my legendary punjabi juttis.

Kurta: Fabindia
Belt: From a 109 F dress
Earrings: CP, Delhi

White leggings: Fabindia
Juttis: Local Bathinda market
For what is a very normal kurta outfit, I think the belt adds that something-extra-something-different charm to it. What do you think? Let me know!
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